MEM: Pass the ports from Python to C++ using the Swig params

This patch adds basic information about the ports in the parameter
classes to be passed from the Python world to the corresponding C++
object. Currently, the only information passed is the number of
connected peers, which for a Port is either 0 or 1, and for a
VectorPort reflects the size of the VectorPort. The default port of
the bus had to be renamed to avoid using the name "default" as a field
in the parameter class. It is possible to extend the Swig'ed
information further and add e.g. a pair with a description and size.

util/regress all passing (disregarding t1000 and eio)