Config: Exit with fatal if a port is already connected

This patch turns the existing warning into a fatal, as there should
never be any cases where a (non-vector) port is assigned to and then
later connected to something else. If this behaviour is allowed, as it
used to be, there are cases where the wrong number of C++ ports are
created when instantiating objects with VectorPorts (obviously that
could be fixed, but the better approach is to simply not allow it).

util/regress all passing (disregarding t1000 and eio)